28042014

Today, my sis is coming back from kl
So mommy late come and fetch me
Well.. When the time i was waiting for
What had i do??
I don't know o..
Looking of her??
Playing with her??
Fighting with her??
Talking with her??
Taking photos??
Acting??
Joking???
Haih.. Don't know.. Just everything there..
And jiejie comes back today and make everyone full of laughing at home..
Sound great right?? Hehe..
My bro is so funny
Every stories is around him and he's the one who make us laugh nonstop
Every reactions of him are cute.. Haha
Mommy ask him:" What you always call of me??"
Tingfeng:" Mommy"
Me:" No.. Not that one one, others??"
He's eating and answering " Nenek"
!!!!!
Hahaha.. so shocked with it
And mommy said:" now jiejie is back and he become more dare and naughty.. Call me nenek..But before call me "Pretty" here "Pretty" there" (美女美女)
Hahaha.. 人小鬼大
Hmmm... What else??
It's much to been share in the night
It have a quite long time din't been like this..
It's so touch to look back of the moments :')
Mommy say jiejie came back and everyone is happy
Haha.. And jie say she thought everyone don't want her already since she have long time din't come back
I just smile and saying the words in my heart "Everyone is missing you and loving you so much even you are far distance from us"
Hmmm... So many things to think and share
That night.. No no no.. Is the day.. Every kind of emotions is coming out..
Hmm.. And i'm still waiting for my letter..
Hope it will coming to me soon..
Hmm.. I know.. Stay at my position and look for the goals correctly
I know.. STAY STAY STAY... Angel always be with me
STAY STRONG
STAY HAPPY
STAY HEALTH
STAY POSITIVE
STAY SWEET
I know many people stand with me.. So just to stay.. NO matter how.. NO matter what :)
It's my journey and GO AND CREATE YOUR OWN BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY :D

男人讓自己成為最幸福女人的做法

1、經常親吻她，趁她不注意；

2、過馬路時牽她的手，即使吵架；

3、一定要有屬於你們自己的房子，即使不大；

4、一起聽她喜歡的歌和她愛看的電影，陪她感動；

5、讓她躺在你的腿上，可以撫摸她的頭髮；

6、她洗澡的時候唱歌給她聽，讓她不覺得悶；

7、哄她吃她不愛吃但有營養的食物；

8、用情侶牙刷，然後把你的牙刷和她的偷偷換一下；

9、當她很累時給她捏捏肩，捏捏腳，然後撓她腳心逗她開心；

10、偷偷錄下她走來走去和睡覺的樣子，不管她耍賴還是威脅就是不刪；

11、沒有理由的抱抱她；

12、她寫的東西我一定用心的看，讀懂內心的那個她；

13、週末為她做她喜歡吃的東西，然後散步；

14、在大天廣眾之下背她或停下來擁抱她；

15、在街上走的時候不會離她超過1米遠的距離；

16、進餐廳的門或出圖書館的時候一定為她拉門讓她先走；

17、陪她買菜殺價，她做飯你做湯；

18、趁她半睡半醒間為她蓋被子，醒來先看看熟睡的她，然後親一下她的額頭；

19、在她特殊時期為她端上熱的紅糖水，然後若無其事的看電視；

20、偶爾早上打電話給她，聽她慵懶的聲音然後問她想吃什麼給她帶回去；

21、給她取可愛的外號，只有你能叫；

22、手機和電腦的背景一定是她的照片或你們的合影；

23、手機上的暱稱一定是和別人不一樣的，當你打給她時，她的姐妹看到會很羨慕；

24、在家幫她梳個幼稚的髮型，然後叫她女兒；

25、如果出差一定帶東西給她，雖然不貴，但證明你時刻都在想著她；

26、她坐上車，一定先為她拉上安全帶，再為自己拉；

27、當她想要鬆開的時候一定再堅持抱她一會；

28、永遠不會丟下她一個人，就算你無理取鬧也一定要讓她安全；

29、你心情不好的時候能同她說說，如果你不想說，就讓你抱一下；

30、剛上的飯菜一定裝作搶著吃的樣子，多為她夾些；

31、當她無助時你能陪她爬爬山，看看夕陽；

32、吵架後絕對不冷戰，哄她之後告訴她你是為她好；

33、睡覺的時候喜歡她抱著你，但當她背過身去一定也轉身然後再抱她；

34、在她做家務的時候為她拍照，告訴她穿圍裙的樣子也一樣很美；

35、如果她生病了一定細心照顧她，因為這時候她最脆弱，為她熬大補湯；

36、錢包裡一定有她的照片；

37、下班回來一定會大聲的說：老婆，我回來了；

38、半夜故意把被子往自己這邊拉，讓她離自己近些；

39、聽她囑咐我按時吃飯，多喝水多吃水果，說她羅嗦然後吻她；

40、打雷的時候把她攬到懷裡睡，然後說：我怕怕；

41、幫她擦她吃東西留在嘴邊的奶油的和果醬；

42、留一點點的鬍渣在親她的時候紮紮她；

43、在她的朋友面前細心的照顧她，讓他們知道她的選擇是對的；

44、在你的朋友面前細心的照顧她，不讓她覺得你冷落了她；

45、有生之年陪她去趟她喜歡的城市或國家；

46、當她發呆，做飯，拖地或趴在陽台的時候，你會在身後攬住她；

47、不許她說對不起，告訴她這是聖旨，但可以用老公真好這四個字來代替；

48、即使是冬天，她說口渴你也會一溜煙下床幫她倒水，但回來她必須幫你暖身子；

49、當她錢包裡錢不多的時候，你會拿給她說：幫我買雙襪子，不用找了；

50、讓她愛上你愛的遊戲，讓她愛上你愛的球隊；

51、一起養隻寵物；

52、在她能看到的地方寫篇文章；

53、帶她去遊樂園，電影院，圖書館，博物館，漫畫展和小酒吧；

54、有一首關於我們故事的歌，每次去KTV都要唱；

55、當她要和你商量事情或說不開心的事的時候，一定放下手中的東西認真聽；

56、如果有天她要離開你，你會挽留，也會放她走，告訴她受委屈的時候來找你；

57、抱著一顆感激的心和她相處，當你想發脾氣的時候，你要學會忍耐；

58、下雨的時候打一把傘，邁一樣的步伐踩水花不讓天氣影響她的心情；

59、去餐廳點她喜歡的菜，如果實在點不出就點沒吃過的，一起喊好吃或難吃；

60、在你朋友和父母面前會誇讚她，不管她是否在場；

61、當她不理你時，就模仿她的動作、她的聲音、她的表情、她撒嬌時說的話；

62、送她回家一定把她送到門口，告訴她明天會來接她；

63、絕不在她面前盯著別的女人看；

64、總能隨時變出一塊她喜歡吃的糖；

65、如果你有一天出了意外，希望她能找個人替你愛她照顧她；

66、無論是心情不好還是什麼，就算是吵架也要讓著你老婆，因為老婆就只有一個，她是你最親的家人。

Believing

Mistakes are great.
They bring you into different rooms.
Dreams never just a dream.
Achieve your goals and believe it.

I SWEAR

I SWEAR!!!
IF STILL BEEN LIKE THAT
UNTIL I CAN'T MAKE IT AT ALL
I'LL TURN MY BLOG INTO PRIVACY
THAT'S ONLY ME KNOW OF THAT!!!!
HOW LONG WILL BE THAT???
TILL I FEEL I'M READY TO BEEN SHARE AND PUBLIC AGAIN!!

Wondering

Sometimes.. I was wondering am I doing correct that I have updated my blogs????
I don't know why I feel so..
Cause I never know a post can make someone into a trouble..
Just like I should never do that
But.. If I turn a way..
Ya.. I know.. don't care of what's others saying.. cause i'm just playing my parts..
It's my blog.. just follow my feelings to do so..
But am I really feeling okay if I realise that my post can turn the other way and make people feel so annoy???
NO!!
I SHOULDN'T!
cause all are mine
Don't bother it anyway
And I won't say sorry cause it's not my matter. . I'm just sharing my story...
The one who should say sorry was not me at all
Although the post is the first point that bring the troubles in :-(
But shouldn't be like that
And shouldn't be me right???? :'(
Now I realise what's going on
But why???
It shouldn't be like that right??
Hmmm.. wondering and wondering
Fighting and fighting
In the end
Nothing answer coming out to me
God.. my dear god
Please forgive me..
I know that but I don't think I should be like that
F**k
What am I talking about???
What's wrong with me? ?
I shouldn't be like that
ALL ARE RUBBISH HERE!!!
Don't even know what am I doing now
Haih.. forget about it. .
GO AND SLEEP!!!

25042014 (Puzzle Competition)

Honestly.. I feel so sleepy before going there
Not only me.. even shijie also say she's sleepy too..
And she ask me how could we attain the competition??
I answer her:" Hahax.. Nvm.. We just play and enjoy :P"
By the way.. No one know that it's different when the times come..
I still remember the time we reach there.. It's 7.56pm
When we reach the destination.. we just look here and there
Err.. no no no.. I think just only me to look around the design of Tree House
I was telling shijie this and that.. hahah.. feel like i'm annoying :P

The place that we take part in the competition :)

Firstly, we have a small opening ceremony
Hehhe.. And i'm so naughty to tell shijie the words they have told 

And i'm first time to see a host use the phone to look of his scripts..

Hahah.. Feeling fun to retort and refute them 

(Of course i'm not doing that in loudly, i just do that and let the person beside me hear it )

We are the last group (Group L)

So we are sitting at the corner
Hehehehe.. The place that i always to choose.. Can say we are so lucky

Oooo.. Ya.. "L" stands of "Lucky"

Hahahha.. I ask shijie to guess what's standing of the letter "L" last night?
And i say "L" not stand of "Lose" but stand of my name "Ling"
Hahah.. and shu hui say it's standing of "Lol"
hahaha... but now.. i'm sure it's "Luck"

Really.. the only word that can explain everything and make us feel so excited :D

Look at the clock.. 8.30pm..
And The competition is starting
Oh.. Ya.. Forgot one thing.. Must be remembered!
The guy make it mess again when i had done to turn over the pieces!!!
Oh Shit!! It's like.. 

I was looking on him and shocked!!
What's the time before i turn it???!!
And i ask him.. "Why you do that? Why just make our group? How's about others?"

He answer me:" Ya lo.. It's competition what. Hmm. I'll will make on others group too.. But you are the first group first la"
Okok.. You win lo.. and i turn again...=.="

This is the sample that we need to complete the puzzle.
Is it hard??
Guess so :P

2 hours to go and it's starting

Hmmm.. everyone is focusing ^^

Firstly, i just feel like "wow, so hard"

But as the time going.. We find out the way and fix them..
All the sleepy mood are gone!

Honestly.. It's fun to play and enjoy to play and fix the pieces of the puzzle
And it's make you feel so happy and proud once you saw the shape of it.. Hehe.. :D
Along the competition.. I turn and turn.. No only the pieces include myself.
I was standing here and there and the light is so...err.. abit dark..cause it's not the white colour..
So i just switch on the light of my phone to make it can be seen and found it more clearly
So.. Can you imagine?.. One hand handle the phone. One hand is finding the pieces and fix them well.. Mind is still working.. Hahah..
Ya.. hardship is there.. But all is worth and valued :)

See.. Here's our project.. It's look nice right???

Heheheh

Honestly...I feel like wanna finish it!!

Can't wait to see how's it look like when we have done

And they have counted.. we just left 98 pieces

But it's already times up!

We can't make it anymore

Hmm.. finally.. Get time to rest..

And have one apple juice to drink :)
Hehhe.. Apple Juice.. My favourite <3 :D

But i'm not really enjoy the drink.. cause i feel so nervous with the results

Hard to breathe and the heart beats getting faster and faster
I don't know why i will feel like that
Cause when i look around.. everyone is so relaxing
Just me and my partner..
I really don't know why
Maybe i have long times din't take part in any competition
Maybe i have long times din't get the prize
Maybe I wanna to know how was the result
Maybe at the first we just feel like we just go and play and relax but in the end we have too focus and enjoy
Maybe... Maybe.. Maybe..
No matter what's the reason
Can't stop me feel so
But there is a little talks and speeches before announce the results and give the prizes to the winners

It's make me feel more nervous and can't to wait of it

And finally.... We won!!

Although not the 1st prize.. but this make us feel excited and happy enough 

:D

OMG!!!

Why i din't turn over my prize??

And the photographer.. Why you never tell me that??? :-/

Is it make me look so special and easier to find where am i??

=.=

Anyway.. I'm so glad and appreciate this 3 hours more that i had go through 

Oh ya.. One more sad thing to say that..

The project we had did within 2 hours is gone when they finish counting and get the final results :'(

And i was looking it make them mess again and keep them into box again

OMG!! Heart broken.. We make it hardly and with our true heart :'(

Lucky I got tool some photos 

So i can keep it as memories :)

So lucky in the day.. :)

But where's the photo that just me and my partner???!!!!

I have long times dint get the prize already.. And it looks so special.. Hehe.. ^.^

Will remember it as well..

Lastly.. Wish the days go meaningful when the times pass through

Enjoy the day :D

Oh. That's it

Now i knew it and understand already
See...

"你有人說雙魚總是很像別的星座
但是沒人知道雙魚是最後的星座
所以代表了很多個星座。

雙魚有著白羊的懵懂單純
雙魚有著金牛的忠誠專一
雙魚有著雙子的幽默風趣
雙魚有著巨蟹的無微不至
雙魚有著獅子的霸道黏人
雙魚有著處女的愛情潔癖
雙魚有著天秤的談笑風生
雙魚有著天蠍的獨來獨往
雙魚有著射手的勇敢冒險
雙魚有著摩羯的觀察細膩
雙魚有著水瓶的獨特見解"

What Women Really Want: 7 Things Every Guy Can Do To Be Perfect For Her

1. Honesty – but not too much of it.
A woman doesn’t want a man to lie to her about important matters. She wants to be an important part of his life – the most important part, in fact. She wants to know the things that are going on his life and she wants him to have trust in her. As far as she is concerned, they are one – his life is her life.

She wants him to want to share in his pleasant experiences and memories. She also doesn’t want him to feel that he has to lie, because when that is the case it usually means that he was stepping out of line, making poor choices and mistakes. On the other hand, she doesn’t want the truth in all circumstances. Brutal honesty isn’t wanted.

If she asks, she looks great, she looks beautiful, the fact she gained 15 pounds doesn’t bother you, her new haircut makes her look even cuter. Now that I think about it, the only thing you should really lie is about such shallow matters as appearances. We all look like sh*t sometimes – but she doesn’t need to hear you say it.

2. Understanding – so that she doesn’t feel the need to have to explain herself.
She wants you to know her – inside and out. Why? Because only then will you love her for her. We all sometimes need confirmation that we’re worth loving. The real us – not the people others perceive us to be. We may not all need such a confirmation of our value, but we all want it. But it’s more than just that.

Having someone understand you is having someone completely know you for the person that you really are. There’s no confusion, there’s no misunderstanding or misconception. They know you for you and because they know you for the person you really are, you, in a sense, exist outside of yourself. As long as they live on, so do you.

3. Caring – she needs to know she matters to you.
To be cared for means not to be alone in this life. Most people are forced to care for themselves and the truth is that it’s a lot more difficult than people let on. As human beings, we aren’t always in the right mindset to care for ourselves. To top it off, that’s usually exactly when we need the most caring – when we aren’t mentally or physically capable of doing it ourselves.

She wants you to be there for her when she needs someone, to be there to share her burden. I know it sounds ridiculous, but she wants you to make her life a little easier. Craziness – I know. On the upside, she’ll be there for you when no one else will. Fair enough trade off I think.

4. Strength – both mental and physical.
No woman wants a physical weakling – it’s against her nature. That doesn’t mean she won’t settle for slightly less than Herculean, but you’re a man dammit. She wants to feel that when she’s in your presence. She wants you to be intelligent and to practice self-control simply because you can.

We’re all still animals and women will always be attracted to the stronger men. She wants you to be strong not for the sake of being strong – she wants you to be strong for her. It brings her pleasure, makes her feel safe and turns her on. Do you honestly need more convincing?

5. Compassion – shows her you’re capable of loving.
A woman doesn’t only want a man to have love only for her, but a love for life, for living things. She wants a kind man, a man whom others will look up to, appreciate and admire. She wants a good man.

She doesn’t see being good and compassionate as a weakness. And that’s because it’s not. I know lots of men are taught that to be strong you have to be hateful, spiteful and malicious. That’s very unfortunate, but it’s simply the world we live in. She doesn’t need that. You don’t need that either. No one does.

6. Security – financial and literal.
You don’t need to be a millionaire. Well, for some women, you very well may need to be, but hopefully you’ll only end up with one who admires the traits required for turning oneself into a millionaire and not the money alone. Generally speaking, the right woman will love you for you, but she does need you to make her feel secure.

She wants to feel that you will protect her from physical harm. She wants to know that you’ll keep her safe, healthy and comfortable. Does she need you to keep her safe? To bring home the bread? No. But she’d like you to be capable of it – even if her salary is bigger than yours. She’ll have your back too so you can rest easier as well.

7. Blind Loyalty – she wants to be the only woman he has eyes for.
We all have big egos – men and women alike. We want to feel special. We want to feel unique and better than the rest. We’re competitive by nature and there is no getting around it. Women want a man who sees the world in her. Her and only her.

She knows she’s not the most beautiful or smartest woman in the world, but she doesn’t need to be – she’s not delusional. She just wants you to think – know – that she’s the most beautiful, best woman in the world for you.

She needs you to think she is the best thing that ever happened to you. She wants to be the best and she wants a man who will allot her that title.

The 99 Things You Learn As A Single Girl In Your 20s

Just saw these in fb
To copy here is sharing and  it's more easier for me looking back
Cause i'm a kind person always take some times to look and read back my blogs
And everytime it give me know and understand more about what's going through my growth of life

Now.. Here there are of 99 things learn as a single girl in 20s:

1. Calling a guy nice should be a compliment rather than an insult

2. After a while, it’s not as bad as it’s perceived to be

3. Over-analyzing text messages is the quickest way to drive yourself crazy

4. The best response is typically no response

5. You always have to pay for dinner… even if it’s not in cash

6. Conversation is the most important factor

7. …Aside from sex

8. Just because someone loves you does not mean that person understands you

9. You should always be your number one priority, no matter how often your relationship status fluctuates

10. If he’s too good to be true, ignore the truth until you can’t any longer and promise to learn better the next time

11. Don’t overlook your friends for a guy

12. A steady rotation is never a bad thing

13. However, it gets really awkward when those in the rotation meet one another

14. You will not find your soul mate via a dating app

15. However you will download and delete dating apps at least three times before realizing this

16. It doesn’t matter how many pairs of flats you purchase, he will never get any taller

17. There are certain people who make better lovers than partners

18. Exes are your exes for a reason

19. If you go digging for dirt, you’ll find it and you’ll regret it every f*cking time

20. If you think he’s just not that into you, well then he probably is just not that into you

21. You can’t always listen to everyone’s advice, you have to go with your gut

22. However, your family can often times give you the best advice

23. Being positive will make you a happier person

24. Casual sex can and will be fun, but the eventual love making can be even better

25. Being independent or thrown into a tough situation is the best way to grow into yourself

26. Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t like until you come into contact with it

27. Cry hard about something that upset you and never cry about the same thing again

28. It’s perfectly okay to stay in on the weekends with your best friend, watch “Law & Order” and complain about how single you both are

29. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me

30. Exercise for yourself not for someone else

31. Cheaters usually repeat their mistakes

32. Don’t try and be someone you’re not

33. Do not cyber stalk the sh*t out of the other person before going on a date — getting to know the other person is the point of the date

34. Trying new things and having fun is the best way to figure out what it is that you want

35. Don’t purposely lead people on, it’s just cruel

36. How to assemble your own furniture

37. It’s beyond beneficial to carry a mini hair brush in your purse on a night out, oh and concealer

38. There is nothing a Jimmy John’s sandwich can’t cure

39. Boys are not worth wasting a day’s makeup over

40. You discover who your die-hard friends are

41. Not every relationship you get involved in is going to be “the relationship”

42. Physical age doesn’t guarantee maturity

43. Batteries control every important electronic aspect of your life

44. Friendships can be your most intense relationships

45. Don’t complain about something or someone you’re putting up with

46. Looks are far from everything

47. People don’t change and it’s rude to try and make them because of selfish reasons

48. You can’t rush what’s meant to be

49. When you give certain men an inch, they will take a yard

50. How freeing it is not to have to answer to anyone

51. Your phone battery will last a lot longer without a boyfriend

52. There’s never a good enough reason for a seven-scroll text message

53. You don’t need a boy to define you

54. Receiving “heyyyy” after 1 am means he’s trying to f*ck you, not date you

55. You need to create a happy medium between eating your feelings and burning them off

56. You will never feel better after sleeping with your ex

57. Forgiving someone makes you the stronger person, not the weaker one

58. It’s important to know when you need to apologize

59. Sometimes you just outgrow loving someone

60. Your past does not define you, but it can teach you valuable life lessons

61. Anything you want and need to do can be done on your own

62. Sometimes love just isn’t enough

63. Often it means more to trust someone than to love that person

64. The more anger you carry with you, the harder finding and accepting love will be

65. You should never stay with someone out of comfort or convenience

66. Honesty is mostly the best policy

67. Any and all relationships you encounter in your life will teach you a lesson, even if you are unsure what it is at the moment

68. You can’t make someone love you

69. Loving someone does not always translate into being with that person

70. It’s usually best to think with your head and not your heart, but that is not usually what happens

71. Heartbreak will never get easier but you will learn how to manage it

72. Only you can determine your self-worth

73. Invest in a hobby, it’ll help you remain sane

74. There comes a certain breaking point when you just need to let someone go

75. Looking for love is the surest way to never find it

76. Do not let where others are at in their lives overwhelm or consume you

77. Always choose deep and simple over shallow and complex

78. Before you love another you must love yourself

79. Love and lust are two very, very distinct things and the sooner you realize the difference, the better off you will be

80. Once a creeper, always a creeper

81. Men are not mind readers so don’t get mad when they don’t know what’s going on inside your head

82. For some reason some people just can’t seem to take a hint regardless of how obvious it is

83. Mostly everyone deserves a second chance, but it should be given with caution

84. What’s meant to be will be, or at least that’s what you will keep telling yourself

85. If a guy will cheat on his girlfriend with you, he will do the same to you if he ever leaves her

86. Comparing yourself to someone else will only make you feel worse

87. You end up with what you settle for

88. Do not settle because you are bored or lonely

89. Warning: Your ex-boyfriend from college is probably the same exact person in the post-grad world

90. If you keep telling yourself there are no good, available men, then there are no good, available men

91. You are always responsible for how you act no matter how you feel

92. If he doesn’t want to get in touch with you, he won’t get in touch with you and if he does, then he will

93. For some reason as soon as you act like you’re not interested in someone, that person will start acting like he is interested in you

94. The best way to forget about a one-night stand is to delete his phone number, if you even got that far

95. If you don’t have someone by October 1, you most likely won’t have someone all winter

96. Don’t fake it because then he will never learn

97. No guy is worth changing yourself for

98. Dancing around your apartment, blasting music while crying is the best form of therapy

99. Just because you’re single doesn’t mean no one loves you

Teddy Bear

Still remember i say i wish to have a lavender teddy before??

If you have forgotten.. Here is it that i said it :D

http://qinlinwei-0226chingling.blogspot.com/2014/01/lavender-teddy.html

Hehehehe

It's so nice and i always wish to have

Cute right??? ;)

And now...

I really have it!!!

=D

Woohoo

I'm So Happy 

And it smell so nice
Lavender smell
That's my favourite flower and the colour :D

Hehehe..I purposely make it beside my ukulele

I know my techniques not so good in taking a photo

But i feel great and i wanna to
Heheh

Not even the photo techniques

My skills of playing ukulele also so suck 

But i really love this two

I will try to learn it and treat all my teddy bears well

Cause i still can't find the little teddy that i was lost it

Ya.. i miss it but i know i couldn't find it back 

So i just use to look the pic that i get of it's memories 

:')

He is following me 

and there are many ways and journey that we go through together

School, Trips, Journeys, Works, Home, Bed, Dreams...

Anywhere 

That's why i say every soft toys that i have now are playing different parts of them

And they means differenly for me 

Heheheh

And now the lavender teddy is my new members :)

Soon...

Will be add in one member again i think

Hahax

=D

Stand up Yourself

We spend our whole life keeping and saving relationships..
We do everything to try to keep others happy
We compromise ourselves and we forgive their faults just because we love them so much
And we can't imagine our life without them...

But in keeping these relationships...
We forget ourselves...
our own happiness and we lose our own respect..

STAND UP YOURSELF!

Don't give any one that much control that you lose the real meaning of life and real happiness...
Truly Loving someone never makes you lose your self respect and identity.
IT MAKES YOU STRONGER!!

记得微笑

成熟不是人的心变老，是泪打转能微笑。

有些事，想多了头疼，想通了心疼。
所以，想不开就别想，得不到就别要，干嘛要委屈自己。
在多说无益的时候，也许沉默就是最好的解释。
命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求。
生命毕竟是个漫长的过程，每一寸时光都要自己亲历，每一杯雨露都要自己亲尝。
决定你是否快乐的关键是你的心境，而不是你的遭遇。

这个世界变化太快，在岁月中蹉跎，每个人都有自己的故事。
看淡心境才会秀丽，看开心情才会明媚。
累时歇一歇，随清风漫舞。
烦时静一静，与花草凝牟。
急时缓一缓，和自己微笑。

无论遇到什么事，都要记得微笑。
就像雏菊的花语一样：永远的快乐。
姐姐说她是向日葵，而我就是雏菊。
"It's just like a small sunflower. But you're not the yellow one.You are the white one. Pink and blue one very nice. Blue one suits you. But you're not the blue one "  ^ ^

奇迹

生命的诞生和运作就是奇迹,
但要人类相信奇迹卻比奇迹发生还困难。

变是不变的道理。

Jealous

Jealous is not a good thing
Cause it bring down the mood just in a second.

Useless

So many words to say
But many words can't speak it out
All my words are swollen into my stomach
Nick Vujicic got his LIMITLESS
But me..
Nothing gonna change
Have you hear it??
The heart is broken
Full of blood
Full of pains
I know i can be turn a way to be happy and smile
Just sometimes i have been moody and over thinking
It's not easy to me to talk so much to someone
But i...
Haiz... I should not to talk so much..
SHOULDN'T!!!
Should be quiet and silence
Just SILENCE
Am i angry??
At the first beggining
Ya.. i am
But after that..
I'm not but i feel sad and speechless with me
Please let be
Cause i just can spread it out of my sadness here
Don't care of others anymore
Hearing of the songs
The lyrics and melodies are talking to me
"Hi. Little Girl. May i have a dance with you?"
Hehe
Dancing with it till i'm so tired
Nothing gonna change
No need use to know who am i already
Cause no matter how many ways i had change
 I am still who am i
Dar... My heart is painful and bleeding now :'(
Could you come and save my heart??
NO!!
No anyone can save me
ONLY ME
JUST MYSELF 

Secret

The deepest secret is that
Life is not a process of discovery,
But a process of creation
You are not discovering yourself,
But creating yourself a new.

人生最奥秘的秘密是,
它不是发现的过程,
而是创造的过程。
你不是在发现自己 ,
而是在创造全新的自己。

哈佛圖書館的10條訓言

1 Sleep now, Dream will come out; Study now, Dream will come true. 此刻打盹，你將做夢；而此刻學習，你將圓夢。

2 The pain of study is temporary; the pain of not study ...is lifelong. 學習時的痛苦是暫時的，未學到的痛苦是終生的。

3 You do not lack time to study, you are lacking the efforts. 學習這件事，不是缺乏時間，而是缺乏努力。

4 Study is one but not the only component of your life, but if you cannot even overcome this single component, what can you overcome? 學習並不是人生的全部。但既然連人生的一部分（學習）也無法征服，還能做什麼呢？

5 Get up early, Grind out hardy, Gain on success. 只有比別人更早、更勤奮地努力，才能嚐到成功的滋味。

6 Nobody succeeds easily without complete self-control and strong perseverance. 誰也不能隨隨便便地成功，它來自徹底的自我管理和毅力。

7 Time pass by. 時間在流逝。

8 Stop walking today and you'll have to run tomorrow. 今天不走，明天要跑。

9 People who invest the future are the true realists. 投資未來的人是忠於現實的人。

10 No pain, No gain. 不勞則無獲。

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Simple things become complicated when you expect too much

雙魚座秘密

【雙魚座秘密】

⒈雙魚天生克雙子；

⒉容易心軟；

⒊雙魚女很愛逞強；

⒋堅強下的脆弱,把一切的辛酸眼淚全留給自己；

⒌自尊心強；

⒍沒耐心；

⒎受過的傷比誰都痛；

⒏率真,往往傷害到的不是別人,而是自己；

⒐寬容大度；

⒑雙魚天生異性緣好,特別重視朋友；

⒒對於感情愛憎分明。

If you are asking me that is it true???
I don't know.. Especially the status of no.1..
But i just know
Most of it... Ya.. I did

Fairy Tales???

Honestly..
I abit wonder what i had done and what's going on me??
SERIOUSLY
I'm telling everyone that i'm fine
But i don't know am i really that fine or not
Cause i found noone reason that can let me to say I'm not okay
Ya. Time is passing
I told a friend to be happy
I write a status that Let's us hide the tears and SMILE 
I had many things come out in my mind
Who don't ever scare of others??
Who don't ever afraid of the future??
I know everyone got own problems
I will help someone is not for thanks
It just i wanna all of you been fine
And i don't want you all just like me
I can give everything to you all as long as you all are being well
Last night
It's my first times to sing for you
I don't know why i wanna to do so
i just feel that i wanna scream it out but i couldn't
So i just sing it out
Maybe you won't know
I sing and sing and sing and sing until i don't know what am i doing
I can to be many charateristics at the same time just in front of different people
Sing a song and express out is one kind me
Although i know i'm not singing well and my singing skills also not so good
I can't ever think of that
It make me lose my path although i know i suppose to be continued
Someone know me that i'm not so good and i'm sad in a voice
And he ask me what's happen on me and am i okay?
I told him:"呵呵。。呃。。 应该很好。。嗯。。我很好。。哈哈"
And then another girl say:"应该罢了???"
Hahahaha.. so cute.. and i answer her:"应该翻译成英文就是should..I should be fine.. Ya.. I'm fine..haha :)"
Hahah..Laughing to tell everyone but noone will get know and see my tears is rolling down silently
And it's what i say Let's us hide the tears and SMILE
Hehehe.. Sometimes.. Just to be forgiveness
Sometimes.. it just drops down without any reason
Don't be worry.. I"M FINE!! Really really did
Cause i remember someone told me "Stay happy please" "I love your smile" "So sweet and adorable"
So.. i will.. I will be happy as long as i'm still loving you
Last night.. I was wondering why so many people apologize on me?
I was wondering why they need to apologize again and again that i really don't know what they had did anythings wrong
Haih.. Forget about it.. I understand what you all feel.. But i don't like you all treat me like that
Why not just let it be in silence?
Heart will know of it :)
I'm singing and i get some fairy tales to hear.. hehe..
By the way.. I'm not hearing it directly till the end
Until this morning
When i was sitting in the bus, i just hear with it
At the same moment
I was thinking of one question: Will the fairy tales happen in the true life?
Will it Be??? Will it be??? Will it be???
Just a little percentage of it also can. Even just 0.01%..
So will it be???
Ya.. i know.. I know fairy tales are not truth..It just a tale.. Just a story
It just use to lie and cheat a child or kid..
Yayaya.. I know.. But i still wanna ask will it be happen in our life in one day??
Cause i wish and hope it would be :'(

我想說。。

你所浪費的今天，是昨天死去的人奢望的明天；
你所厭惡的現在，是未來的你回不去的曾經。

遇見是兩個人的事，離開卻是一個人的決定，
遇見是一個開始，離開卻是為了遇見下一個離開。
這是一個流行離開的世界，但是我們都不擅長告別。

有些人，注定是生命中的過客；
有些事，常常讓我們很無奈。
與其傷心流淚，不如從容面對。
孤獨，不一定不快樂；
得到，不一定能長久；
失去，不一定不再擁有。
愛的時候，讓它自由；
不愛的時候，讓愛自由。
看得談一點，傷就會少一點

書中的故事

我總是有個習慣
就是愛在我的筆記本上亂寫亂畫打發時間
我不懂為什麼
反正就是我個人的奇怪習慣
昨晚
我又搬出來那些書
翻閱一面又一面
原來當初我竟寫了那麼多東西
你覺得它是個廢物
我卻把它當成寶
因為它存在著我最珍貴的回憶
無意間看到了曾經的筆記

方向、目標
大還是那麼寬闊
波浪  浪花
不斷在海中飛舞
船夫努力尋找方向

天空一樣那麼蔚藍
小鳥們成群
飛翔在它懷裡
尋找樂趣  食物

人都有屬於自己的
方向  目標
相信自己  並用於
尋找自己的方向
確認自己的目標

時間
時間匆匆從我身旁溜走
過去  成了追憶
未來  成了追逐

雪花漸漸從天而降
一陣風把秋天落葉吹走了
我無法走出那道門
只好獨自在房裡沉思
何時  春天會再次到來
闖入我的內心世界

回憶
回憶
是虛構  是真實
是完美  是殘酷

許多人
擁有它時
就好像不在乎它的存在
失去它了
才發現它的重要性
渴望它的歸來

回憶
有快樂  有悲傷
有幸福  有痛苦
但它依舊那麼珍貴

彩虹
不要因一次挫敗而輕言放棄
身邊困難
只是為單調的風景加上點戳
只要努力奮鬥
成功捱過後
困難就好比水中倒影
船隻輕輕滑過就不見了
屬於你的彩虹
也會再次重現了

天使與惡魔
天使、惡魔
往往只是一線之隔
天使
總是充滿著善意
惡魔
卻總讓人陷入地獄

我希望
我們都會是天使
永遠祝福其他人
無論是親戚或朋友
都會擁有
我們最真誠的祝福
願大家永遠活在
快樂、平安、健康、美好、幸福
的生活中

禮物

昨天  忘了珍惜

昨天  你說明天會更好

但是

昨天  已是歷史

明天  是新的開始

明天  是個未知數

明天  你是否依然記得昨天的約定

今天  是現在

今天  是上天賜給我們的禮物

心跳

心跳是人類的生命

若時間在今天把他帶走

那麼我還能看到太陽在對我微笑嗎？？？

我還能欣賞美麗的星空嗎？

但你卻把答案留在了明天

你對我說

沒有人能決定我的去留

只有我願不願意留下

沒有人在乎我的昨天

只有人期待我的明天

因此

我決定與死神談判

讓我往充滿明天的陽光走去。。。

Waiting outside the lines

I know my blog is getting out of my real story already
Cause i keep share so much songs
Hehe.. but i really love to share the musics
Because no music no life
I miss my choir time with my sis before
I love to live inside with full of songs. Full of lyrics. Full of music notes. Full of music instruments. Full of melodies.
Sometimes music really is a great and is the best medicine in our life
It's show us how our life gonna be
And how to call back our souls ^^
And for today
I recall back with some songs again
And now..
I share this song with you all because i love the melodies and the meanings of the lyrics <3

"Waiting Outside The Lines" by Greyson Chances

You'll never enjoy your life

Living inside the box

You're so afraid of taking chances

How you gonna reach the top?

Rules and regulations

Force you to play it safe

Get rid of all the hesitation

It's time for you to seize the day

Instead of just sitting around

And looking down on tomorrow

You gotta let your feet off the ground

The time is now

I'm waiting, waiting, just waiting

I'm waiting

Waiting outside the lines

Waiting outside the lines

Waiting outside the lines

Try to have no regrets

Even if it's just tonight

How you gonna walk ahead

If you keep living blind?

Stuck in the same position

You deserve so much more

There's a whole world around us

Just waiting to be explored

Instead just sitting around

And looking down on tomorrow

You gotta let your feet off the ground

The time is now

Just let it go

Don't wanna have to force you to smile 

I'm here to help you notice the rainbow

Cause i know

What's in you is out there

I'm waiting, waiting, just waiting

I'm waiting

Waiting outside the lines 

Waiting outside the lines

Waiting outside the lines

I'm trying to be patient

(I'm trying to be patient)

The first step is the hardest

(The hardest)

I know you can make it

Go ahead and take it

I'm waiting, waiting, just waiting

I'm waiting

I'm waiting, waiting, just waiting

I'm waiting

Waiting outside the lines

Waiting outside the lines

Waiting outside the lines

You'll never enjoy life

Living inside the box

You're so afraid of taking chances

How you gonna reach the top??

my illusion my mistake

好奇狮子座是否真的想双鱼一样那么复杂化???
为什么每件事也能折磨自己老半天??
其实你不需要向任何一个人道歉
别再自转牛角尖
痛苦的真的只会是自己
有些痛不是只有你的心明白
我不能说我十足保证我很懂你
但有时候
我会真的错觉为何你做的事情几乎我都作过
你的思想也不是单单就能说得痛
很多时候
明明身边认识的人也不少
但遇到心事却一个也找不上
很多事都往心里憋
有时遇到了
但话经过嘴边却说不出了
唯有再次说"放心。没事了。"
我不懂你是否真的和我一样
所以才怀疑 才担心 才顾虑
因为确实我常这麽说
只是往往口是心非
嘴说没事
心却在淌血泪在流
慰问为何折磨自己
原因给不了
 有时
我真的怀疑自己所做的一切
因为我无法确认和评估自己是否做对了决定
我唯有让自己继续冒险和相信
如果说你笨
那我就是傻瓜了
有些事
有些意思
有些感觉
有些东西
真的就是秀才遇到兵
有理说不清 :'(

Great Romance

Love is special thing in life
Love is everything and it's blind
Falling love just like blooming
It always is the sweetest being together

You're a quiet, caring and kind girl
Your sweet smiles was attact many guys
But the only guy that deeply in your heart is him
He is your only option
A special relationship has breed between you and him

What's a great romance!!!
He is deeply stuck in your heart
No one can replace him
I know i'm busy body cause
I've plan your wedding, your babies and even your future
But it's a great romance

You want to travel around the world with him in one day
He is like a bear for you
You need his hug and love
You need him every single day
It would be romantic thing for you!!
I remembered that you said your love to him is different than others
What he can give you others won't
Both of your relationship are so special and can't be expressed or explained

What's a great romance
He is deeply stuck in your heart
No one can replace him
I believe that the great romamce will keeping on and without ending

I Knew; I Understood; Just I Can't

我知道我沒權力也沒資格
我只是過於在乎
我會說你沒資格
其實我也一樣半斤八兩
在你未需心理醫生前
我想我會比你要早待在心理室
有時我真的很討厭自己
那種雙重人格
一件事足以讓我反覆顛倒
天使與惡魔的掙扎
讓我很討厭自己的優柔果斷
有那一瞬間我很生氣
我知道我的不該
但也如此
我永遠都讓自己進退兩難
有時候

I really do not mean it

But i really don't ever know how to control of it
Sometimes i really bring myself into terrible

Gosh!!

I hate this kind of me

My Dear God

Can't we just be SIMPLE

Just a little SIMPLE life enough

How could i change it easily???
嘴上說的都那麼瀟洒

卻終究敵不過自己內心的脆弱

你拿什麼資格說愛我

睜開眼 那一刻 望著窗外的大樹
看見滿地落花片像是我的心碎片

抬起頭 望著天 看著烏雲滿天灰
發現安靜的雨滴像是我的心淚水

感受風中的滋味
讓我決心對你的一切

你的諾言 你的誓言 從來就不遵守
你的謊言讓我感到很慌心
你的關心  你的愛護  從來就不安心
你自私奪走了我的自由
你說我不明白你的心意
為何你不暫停是你讓我感恐懼
你從不明白爱的滋味 你卻讓我冒险
就憑這一點
你還有什麼資格說愛我 (你没有资格再說爱我)

幸福不是你說能給我的
你的所作所為讓我翻遍了地獄
爱情不是一个經營 是兩個人的心意
就憑這一点
你沒資格再說愛我
就讓一切在開始前結束